Whether you want Hua Hin girls for casual sex or for a more serious relationship, you’ll be able to find plenty of options to keep you happy. The Hua Hin sex scene has all the usual commercial offerings, from escorts to bar-girls and naughty massage.
The nightlife offers a fairly slow paced alternative to the more hectic options in Bangkok and elsewhere. The city is nowhere near to being the farang (foreigner) capital of Thailand, but there are still several thousand expats living here.
I would say that most farang are Swedish, Swiss, German and British, but there are many from other countries too.
The town also hosts a lot of of tourists each year, both local and foreign. Many of the tourists are of the regular variety, arriving as couples or families, but don’t let that distract you if you are a single man – your interests are also well catered for.
For anyone who enjoys a lively nightlife, the extra economic growth here over recent years has led to the development of an enjoyable and entertaining after-dark scene. Bar-girls and massage girls are present in numbers, so getting sex in Hua Hin is very easy...
There’s also a ferry service that operates between Pattaya and Hua Hin, and that adds an extra dimension for those nightlife lovers who want easy access to the madness of Pattaya, without having to live there.
The usual warning comes with regard to getting seriously attached to a Thai girl whom you met in a tourist area.
That warning is not quite the Defcon-1 imminent disaster warning that I might issue for relationships forged in the most promiscuous areas of Thailand, but it is still a concern.
Regular Thai girls can be found, but I’d steer clear of anyone met in a bar area. For my best advice about how to meet regular ladies, consider purchasing:
The real Thai beauties are out there waiting to meet you, and whilst the bars have plenty of 'lookers', there aren't many 'keepers'.
There are a selection of online sites that offer you the option of meeting up with escorts in Hua Hin. However, generally speaking, it isn't necessary because the Hua Hin nightlife offers a few other less costly options for meeting local hookers.
As always I advise simply using a regular dating site - there are plenty of ladies on these sites who will be happy to meet you for casual sex provided that you behave like a gentleman.
Hua Hin escorts do, of course, offer the same advantage that call girls always offer i.e. greater discretion. So, if you want to arrange a secretive meeting in a hotel room, these working girls are worth considering.
If you are concerned by the safety/reliability factor associated with Hua Hin escorts, or call girls in general, then don't be. As a general rule you'll find that booking via one of the dedicated sites will help to ensure that what you see is what you get.
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On the other hand, classified ads on Craigslist and similar sites are much more risky since these ladies work freelance and don't have to answer to anyone. A good dating site or escort site has an incentive to make sure that girls are girls and ladyboys are kept on a separate listing.
Hua Hin is not really the best place for a crazy night out, not compared to Pattaya, but you can still go out and have an awesome night whether you are married with kids, or whether you are free and single.
One thing to remember is that no matter which city you visit in Thailand, you are going to find yourself more or less restricted to nightlife areas that cater for foreigners if you don't know your way around. This is true of both bars and Hua Hin massage venues.
The locals have their own places but, provided that you are not out to cause trouble, you're welcome in these places. Most expats avoid them due to perceived safety concerns. I know of guys who have been to several Thai places in Hua Hin and they have only ever had good experiences to report.
Anyway, since most foreign visitors won't ever find themselves in these Thai style places I’m going to focus mostly on the more touristic places in and around town.
This is by far the most famous and vibrant Hua Hin nightlife area for tourists and expats. Soi Bintabaht is located downtown; it is a narrow bustling road lined with small bars, one or two guesthouses and more recently, a restaurant. Don’t worry about the lack of restaurants though because there are plenty within walking distance where you can find almost any kind of food imaginable.
Soi Bintabaht is where people go when they want to have a good time in the evenings after they have already had dinner. During the past decade this road has sort of expanded, and nowadays there are a number of roads all offering the same sort of entertainment. Most expats refer to the place as the Bintabaht area due to the spillover of fun stuff onto the surrounding area.
Virtually all the bars in this area are staffed by ladies of the night so, in this respect, it is also the main Hua Hin red light district. However, don't expect to see crazy a-go-go bars or anything even remotely similar to what you will see in Bangkok or other Thai cities.
If you are a hot blooded single male you'll be glad to know that 99% of the Hua Hin bar girls will be more than happy to make sure you're happy in exchange for a monetary reward. Remember, I did say families frequent this area, often with their young kids, and this in itself makes the nightlife unique. Families with young kids would never dream of going into pick-up bars elsewhere in Thailand, but in Hua Hin everything is very low key.
Many tourists visit and go back to their own countries never even knowing that they spent time in a Thai red light district. The girls in these bars are not very pushy at all, and if you are with family they will never try to lead you astray.
On the other hand, if you are clearly not attached to anyone, you’ll almost certainly have a few girls trying to steal your heart and believe me, Hua Hin girls REALLY know how to turn on the charm when they want to. Some genuinely are only hoping for a few lady-drinks and some light hearted banter, whilst others really want you to take them with you for the night.
Be warned that buying lady-drinks all night for working- girls can end up costing you a fortune. Even your own drinks are expensive in this part of town, and lady-drinks cost considerably more even if they only drink coke. Quite often they will order an expensive drink, but in reality they are just getting a coke.
The Thai girls in these bars can be so much fun, and most guys don’t mind paying for a few extra drinks.
Some bars have short-time rooms upstairs, some don't. If you find yourself unable to resist the temptation of a quick romp, and there are no short-time rooms available, don't worry because your chosen lady will know where to find a room. These are typically small rooms with air-conditioning, and most are kept very clean, or perhaps I've just been lucky.
Soi 80 is was once considered to be the Hua Hin happy ending massage district of choice for expats, but again, it is low-key and the girls in this street are in no way pushy. These days you can find many massage services at the intersection of Poon Suk Road and Soi 57 (about 100 meters north of Soi Bintabaht), but Soi 80 still has some options. Soi 90 to the south is yet another option.
In these locations you'll find cheaper drinks, plenty of good food, and much friendlier girls.
For an oil massage in these Hua Hin nightlife venues you are more or less expected to strip naked and lie on your stomach.
Anything other than the massage itself means extra money for the girls, and they really do know how to weaken a guy once he is already naked.
Usually they will move in for the kill when they start on the back of your legs, with a series of ‘innocent’ bumps against the bits that make guys vulnerable. You do of course have a towel strategically placed to protect your modesty but it cannot stop wandering hands.
If you show no clear resistance, Hua Hin massage girls will typically see that as an all-clear sign and they will start pushing things further, usually waiting until it's time for you to lie on your back.
At this point it's pretty much impossible to hide things if they have aroused you...
If you've made it this far without giving yourself away, they will almost certainly change that now. Usually a Hua Hin happy ending massage will end with some much needed and much appreciated relief regardless of what your initial intentions were!
I realize that this might seem sleazy to some readers but actually it all happens in a very nice way which doesn't feel wrong or sleazy in any way. If you want a non-sexual massage then just say so, or simply go to venues that are clearly of a different kind.
Keep in mind that Thai men also have their erotic massage places, because despite what Thai society wants outsiders to believe, all this sort of thing is generally accepted so long as it is done discreetly.
The Hua Hin sex scene, for a few years, had a BJ bar called Lolita's although it's gone now. This was a dedicated blowjob bar but you could also get more there if you wanted to.
From a single guy’s point of view it was awesome. Nicely decorated private rooms were the order of the day and prices were cheap. Sadly, for those guys who would like to visit an establishment such as this, a lack of good looking girls along with a continuous demand for bribes by the local police resulted in the place closing down.
A new owner reopened the venue under a different name, but again, a lack of good looking girls meant it was doomed from the start.
If you really must have some pleasure of an oral nature when you visit, then one of the most obvious Hua Hin sex choices would now be a place called Tropical Massage, which is located just around the corner from Soi Bintabaht. There are some other Hua Hin happy ending massage options too, and I'll come to them in a moment.
For those who want to pick up a girl without having to visit the bars, the Hilton has a nightclub nearby where you can find freelance Hua Hin hookers along with many Thai bar girls who head there after the bars close at around 1:00 AM. The drinks are overpriced there, and the music very cheesy, but it does seem to get packed every night.
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A Hua Hin girl booking will cost a similar amount to what you find in Pattaya, which means that prices are amongst the lowest that the tourist areas have to offer.
As always, girl prices here are more negotiable when there are fewer other tourists around and when the night is getting late.
Thailand and the western world were shook a few years back when an elderly British family were beaten and kicked unconscious by a group of Thai thugs right in the middle of the Soi Bintabaht area. The whole thing was captured on video and made for some very ugly viewing.
The good news is that this incident was a very unusual one and not at all typical of the city. It is the only major incident that I can recall and, as life-threatening as it was, serious injury was avoided. The assailants were all caught and sentenced to imprisonment, and personally I would have no concerns at all about visiting the place.
I would regard Hua Hin to be safer than most places in this part of the world.
Anyway, to get back to the whole Hua Hin sex scene, you generally only have four basic choices:
There are no real nightclubs, and I can't see any opening either. The closest you’ll get to a nightclub is the Hilton’s club. If you are young and you are into the rave scene, then the Hua Hin nightlife scene is definitely not the place to be. You can have a fantastic night out here, but don't expect Full Moon parties or anything along those lines.
Some of the hostess bars which have started opening up are incredibly popular among the younger Thai crowds who have money to spend. Most of the hostesses in these places tend to be university students or office girls looking to earn some extra cash in the evenings.
If you are an older guy and you are lucky, you might also find a girl at one of these places who is willing to be your mistress on an ongoing basis in exchange for some financial assistance. This is very common among older Thai married men who have money. In many cases their wives will also know that their husbands have a Mia Noi (mistress or lesser wife) on the side.
In summary, if you are looking for the hardcore stuff, the Hua Hin escorts, girls and massage scene might not be as well developed as better known options, but there is still plenty of fun to be had. However, if fun times are not enough and you want something more serious, start by checking out my Thai Dating Mega-Book.
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